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writes:Im a middle aged female in love with another middle aged female. I told her my feelings went deeper than friendship and I can assure you that her actions and words speak volumns that she feels the same way. I don't believe she will ever act out her feelings for me or admit them to me because she is married. Although she claims to be unhappy in her marriage and continues to tell me she wished she lived up here by me. My question is I am finding myself thinking about her all the time and I feel down in the dumps because we are not together. How do I tell her what I am feeling without her taking it as a sign that I want to back away from her? Because I don't and I never want to lose the closeness we have with each other. I do know that I can't keep living like this. Please help!!!Thank you!! Reply to this Question
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female
reader, The Lilly +, writes (27 December 2009):
run run like a deer, get a nuclear charged tractor, spaceship or Vesper, but get away as fast as you can
then take a cold shower and slap yourself around.
The smart up and get someone appropriate.
Gheeeez
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): I'm actually in the same situation except I am 19 and she is 37. Honestly our situation sucks because we have both expressed our feelings and out of respect they are still our friends. But I got some excellent advice from myself and in my dream. I think were over thinking it too much or maybe not. But I have decided to be honest with her and ask her if she feels the same way, I personally will tell I just need to know how she feels, this doesn't mean I will pressure her if she feels the same way, I would tell her it would just be for me to know. And I will be honest and tell her if she doesn't feel the same way that I am happy being friends and will promise never to touch the subject again and vise versa. However you would have to be ready to be prepared for the worst and good.
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