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reader, DIE-romantic.  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 You cant do much, because he would lose his job and you wouldnt be in a very good situation. So really, as i know what its like, i understand, but you cant do anything. Like duskyrowe said, you can only admire him from a distance.Take care xxxxxx
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reader, Memorial_Address +, writes (14 August 2007):
Memorial_Address is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanx so much for your pieces of advice... I hope I can get through with this and handle it properly... I hope I can get through with my decisions and make a right one...
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Hey hunni! I agree with 'Dusky' about the fact why he's avoiding you - I'm going thru a similar experience to you, with me, i make it completely obvious i like him [often without meaning to] And to be honest my first thort was that he was avoiding me because he had secret feelings for me, but wanted to hide away from them, knowing that it would be an illegal and forbidden relationship anyway! But although i still like to live the fantasy of us 'gettin together' I kno dat its never gunna happen and he's only keeping his distance cos he doesn't want it to get in the way of the strict teacher/pupil relationship! He probably does know hunni, which explains his behaviour! I know life can feel a right downer at times - and sumtimes you wonder if things could possibly get worse! You have a whole future ahead of you, forbidden crushes are experienced by so many of us! Soon, you will find that special someone who is available - Just you wait, It will get better i promise! In the meantime try to admire him from a distance but nothing else. I'm sure you'll get through this, i know for a fact I will also...Time is the only healer, gud luck hunni xxx
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (12 August 2007):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-acts-young-so-does-that-make-my.html Hang on, isn't this you again??
If he tried anything with you, and someone found out, he'd lose his job and have a bad reputation and as duskyrowe said - he would never be able to get a job with a young person again. Is this the kind of thing you want for him? If you love him, you'll not try to get with him because he could lose soooo much.
I'm really sorry but that's the way it's gonna have to stay. You don't want to make him lose so much do you?
We all get these feelings for teachers, but please do not make anything mroe of it other than a crush.
x Take care x
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (12 August 2007):
 Hi there my dear,sorry about the brief reply. But this guy is nearly twice your age and if he did take things a step further with you he could lose his job,as that would be abusing his professional position plus it is illegal for him to have a relationship with a minor. I had a crush on a teacher when I was your age, but never crossed the boundaries. There will be more nice guys out there you will have crushes, its part of growing up, your hormones are all over the place at the moment so be patient and don't rush to the nearest guy you meet, you have all the time in the world to fall in love with that special person.
Plus the reason why he is avoiding you is because he has a respectable position in the community and wants to keep things strictly teacher/pupil. The education authorities take an extremely dim view of teacher having any thing but a professional relationship with his students,he could end up prosecuted and never to be trusted to work with children again and get put on the Sex Offenders Register. You would not want that to happen to him would you?
Take care my love and remember what I have advised you OK? Dusky x
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reader, Memorial_Address +, writes (12 August 2007):
Memorial_Address is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't think I can live with that... I'm 14 and he's 26... He was first nice to me and talks to me, I got a chance to talk to him everyday before... He broke up w/ her 3 year long relationship girlfriend after he started ignoring me... He avoids me now at school... Some of my classmates, say maybe he likes me... My hopes are high...
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (12 August 2007):
Nothing just admire him from a distance Honey.
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