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writes: Dear all help two days ago i lot my promise ring that my boyfriend gave me , i havent told him as i dont know how to , should i tell him or should i go and buy another ring help Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): I think he would appreciate it more if you were honest and told him that you lost it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): U seem like u are worried about his reaction. Just be your self when u tell him if u feel sad dont be afraid to cry to him. A man that truly loves u wont like to see you cry and he wont be as mad if u show that u are sad u lost it. Buying a new one i think is wrong as a promise ring is as sacred as a engagement ring or wedding ring. Keep ya head up stay strong and confront him. Good luck
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reader, SuperSammie +, writes (20 August 2008):
well how much would it hurt your boyfriend?
would he think you were just being silly if you bought a new one?
if its a big thing to you, tell him and apologize and say it'll never happen again etc...
i'm sure he wont be too mad and he will forgive you, then if you want you can go buy a new one together.
and if this isn't the case and you feel you have no other choice but to buy a new one, then buy a new one.
hope this helps x
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