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*olly...
writes:my boyfriend told me he still loves me but he wasnt happy so i broke up with him. the problem is i miss him so much, he says he still loves me and he thinks about me all the time. i just lost my brother 6months ago and im feeling deeply alone now that me and my boyfriend broke up... how can i get him back? i dont deserve this unhappiness after what iv been through. please tell me how i can get him back.
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reader, helpjayne  +, writes (14 November 2008):
 I think he means that right now he isn't ready to have a relationship with you but in the future he will be, I suggest you go out and you make friends and get introduced to guys that don't mess you around you don't need that and how dare he put you through that after what you've been through find someone that can make you laugh and that doesn't confuse you! You can do better than someone that treats you like that. I'm sure your ex never meant to hurt you but now is not a good time for him. You go out and have fun. Life is too short and I'm sure your brother would want you to be happy.xgoodluck
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reader, molly... +, writes (14 November 2008):
molly... is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks for replying to me but we already talked and he sed that there was no point in us getting bak 2gether cos he cud change his mind andhe doesnt want to ruin what we COULD have in the future im so confused by what he meant are we eventually goingto get back together....i do deserve happiness dont i...losing my brother was so painful and hurtful in the worse way imaginable n now iv lost my boyfriend do anybody have an answer for these mixed messages??xx
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reader, helpjayne +, writes (14 November 2008):
aww you don't. i think maybe you and your ex should meet up and talk things through tell him you still care about him and talk it out ask him why he was unhappy and you can both come up with ways to change it. tell him how he can make things better for you and you tell him how you can make things better for him, but don't just get back with him because your grieving and your lonely get back with him cause you truly love him. life is too short not to say anything to your ex. you do deserve happiness.
i hope i helped
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reader, babes-x +, writes (14 November 2008):
 hey hunn :)
you must tottaly be felling down right now!
what to do is ask him whats he wants to do so its a better relsionship if hes not happy ask him why and you both can try and fix tht problem.. my personal opinion is .. hes not worth it of he knows u lots your brother and now hes says hes not happy he knows you will be alone!. buts its up to you both to have a little chat about it and see what happends.
Hope i helped :)Xxxx
Goood Luckk :)xx
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