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writes: How do you get over feeling like a fool for trusting someone you shouldn't have? Or for allowing yourself to be used even though you knew better? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): i've done that soo many times hurts like hell..
but everytime i end up notcing the signs he's a jerk and get out of that situation rather then leaving it to late.
it's jsut pain but we're human and have a heart..what goes around comes around
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reader, smeedle +, writes (6 February 2009):
Well quick answer is that we are human and so dont listen to the logic of our head. We seem at times to think with our heart and only to listen to that.
No one has got to our age and not made mistakes by loving someone who we knew would be wrong for us, would break our heart and leave deep scares but will we learn by our mistakes, well no of course we will not.
Time will heal the wounds eventually and beating yourself up will not help but you already know that!!.
Hopefully you have cut this person out of your life now and have started the healing process which can take a long time if you have been deeply hurt.
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