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writes:okay so basically i have been on and off with this girl. im taking her to junior prom . the thing is that i feel like i like her so much more then she likes me, and she treats me like shit. I want to be exclusive with her but she is hinting to me that she does not want too. i dont go or flirt with any other girls but she kissed another boy 2 weeks ago and then lied about it to me.! Its like when she wants to be with me she is all nice and then when she doesnt shes mean, rude and obnoxious to me. i try to ask her where we stand and what she wants us to be. but she never has a anwser for me and doesnt really want a relationship. i keep getting hurt and i dont know what to do, or say to her.When i hear she flirts with other guys i get mad and jelous . anyone have any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): you cant give her too much time too decide what she wants. its easy to say yes and hard to say no. clearly there is something stopping her and you have to ask her what that is. she might be scared to get hurt, but your the one getting hurt? tell her she is giving you mixed signals. goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): sweetie, i think you have to let this girl know that you care alot about her and its not fair to YOU that your the one that keeps on getting hurt. you said how you already gave her a second chance, how many chances can someone get? If she continues to flirt with other boys you should go off and flirt with other girls as well. Dont let her upset you and dont show her your upset, you need to be strong.
- i think you have to speak to her on the phone and tell her exactly how you feel and set her straight. She cant keep you waiting around if she does not even know what she wants. you can move on to better things. go out and have fun with your freinds..
- since you want to be exclusive and she seems not to be agreeing , do not get too attached. goodluck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): sweetie, i think you have to let this girl know that you care alot about her and its not fair to YOU that your the one that keeps on getting hurt. you said how you already gave her a second chance, how many chances can someone get? If she continues to flirt with other boys you should go off and flirt with other girls as well. Dont let her upset you and dont show her your upset, you need to be strong.
- i think you have to speak to her on the phone and tell her exactly how you feel and set her straight. She cant keep you waiting around if she does not even know what she wants. you can move on to better things. go out and have fun with your freinds..
- since you want to be exclusive and she seems not to be agreeing , do not get too attached. goodluck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): sweetie, i think you have to let this girl know that you care alot about her and its not fair to YOU that your the one that keeps on getting hurt. you said how you already gave her a second chance, how many chances can someone get? If she continues to flirt with other boys you should go off and flirt with other girls as well. Dont let her upset you and dont show her your upset, you need to be strong.
- i think you have to speak to her on the phone and tell her exactly how you feel and set her straight. She cant keep you waiting around if she does not even know what she wants. you can move on to better things. go out and have fun with your freinds..
- since you want to be exclusive and she seems not to be agreeing , do not get too attached. goodluck!
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 well hun and your still thinkin about being with her huh..u deserve much more than this..some one who loves you as much as you do..take a step back and tell her that u dont deserve to be treated that way and ask her to step up to it if no then she is the one who is losing a lovely boyfriend like u.so she becomes the loser!!and u can go and find that someone special..so all the best!!!
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