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writes:So I'm 15 and my boyfriend is too. We're practically best friends and he's perfect really. He's helped me through a lot. But today he put his hand under NY my shirt, I mean I didn't stop him, nor did I want to. It felt nice,.we were just kissing and he just slowly put his hand under my shirt and bra and squeezed lightly. I won't lie it felt really good and he stayed like that for a little while and then he just put his hand over my vagina(over my shorts) and pushed a little, I got nervous and moved his hand, it felt good but I didn't wanna seen easy. Idk is it okay to let him touchme? I mean if I tell him something he doesn't mind and he apologized right after because he thought he made me nervous and didn't wanna chaseme away, I trust him with all my heart would it be a good idea to let him do that again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2013): If you moved his hand, it means you are not ready, and do not want to seem easy. Sex is not a game. Many things around you make it seems that sex is just "something everyone does". yes and no. If you are a virgin...keep it as long as you can, until you are married if you must. Never your stupid friends telling you "OH you are still a virgin??" Your virginity is the most precious thing you have that is free. You do not want to just give it to anyone. Your husband...who has waited so long to have you...OOOHH yes...think about that for a second :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2013): The fact that he was careful and wouldn't make any moves unless it was okay with you, is a good thing. He respects you; and you also let him know when you felt he went too far. Just because it feels good, doesn't mean it's always okay. Set limits.
Just keep something in mind. The further you let him go, the closer you get to real sex. Just let him know how far is okay for now; and what you think you feel comfortable with.
In order to keep his respect and your control over what happens to your body, you are correct not to let him think that you're too easy. Keep things nice and slow.
If you're not comfortable or ready for it, don't let it happen. It's "your" body!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2013): Hey ! So here's the thing, I would only let him do it again if you are both ready to have sex. You should talk about it with him if you do feel like that is the sex step. What I mean by talk about it ( even though it might be awkward) is going over what protection you are going to use like condoms or if you should go on the pill before. Always protect yourself ! Always use condoms ! Also talking about if you guys feel uncomfortable have a safe word and when you say that word that means stop or just say stop. Also talk about how it will effect your relationship afterward. Even talk after you guys have sex ...if you plan to do that talk about what bothered you and what liked and what you would like to be different ... If you cant tell communication is key ! So if you guys aren't planning on having sex then discuss just keeping at where you are the touching and kissing..etc talk about how comfortable YOU are going Good Luck :P
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