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writes: I am in my late twenties and there is this guy at work that i have had a crush on. We went out on a couple dates, nothing happened not even a kiss. Nothing has happened since. I have a friend at work who had no interest in him at all until all of a sudden. She now has gone out with him, slept over his house etc. She keeps giving me all the details when i don't even ask her. Honestly i really don't want to know. I know just because i had a crush on him doesn't mean he's off limits but i would just assume that this isn't something a good friend would normally do? Am i wrong? A few of my friends say that this girl tends to be on the slutty side and they think that's why guys tend to go for her and that they probably think she is easy. In any event i'm completely jealous and i don't want to ruin our friendship but i don't know what to say or how to act around either of them now...
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reader, Anja +, writes (2 May 2006):
 Jealous of what? The fact you friend gets her knickers off at the first opportunity to a guy who shows any interest? If she knew you liked him...then yes she should have stayed clear. Seems they are both as bad as each other. You have come out the best of this, at least nothing happened with this guy. Sounds like the feeling wasn't mutual, also you have saved yourself from being with a guy who just is not serious about forming a proper relationship first with a girl before jumping into bed with them. Lucky escape I'd say!! xx
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