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writes: i have a boyfriend but i like to watch lesbians kissing and naked girls and i find some of my friends and even girls i walk by very attractive...does this mean i am bisexual? please help me im a confused 14 year old girl! x
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reader, natalieejanex  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 some people's answers actually annoy me. basically, just because you are turned on or physically attracted to another girl and you like watching naked girls and lesbian porn, it does not make you bisexual or a lesbian. it could mean you have a sexual desire or a fantasy about them but until you are old enough to experiment for yourself with both guys and other girls by keeping your sexuality open, there is no way of knowing yet. don't just to conclusions or pick a sexuality to stick to, be open with your sexuality for now.
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reader, natalieejanex +, writes (12 February 2011):
it could just hormones or a sexual fantasy or maybe you are bisexual, but there isn't a way to know for sure until you date the same sex and figure out what your feeling. are you emotionally attracted to girls and could you date the same gender? or do you just want the sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2007): i totally know wat ur going through as i feel the same this could mean you are bisexual.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007): You are not the only one i'm going through the same stage . i was really scared i was gay but now every time it goes in my head i just laugh and think never agian that was stupid. do the same to it works . x
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2007): no it doesnt mean that u r bisexual necessarily. every girl no matter what they say goes thru a phase in their life when they question their sexuality. i guess the way 2 find out is kiss a girl n c how it makes u feel
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reader, CarrieMagdelene  +, writes (22 January 2007):
 Hey, I went through the same thing about your age. :) Don't worry, because it doesn't always mean you're bisexual. It can, but not always. I won't share weather or not I'm bi, but don't automatically assume I am, lol, because it's a toss up for me. Some girls are hot, some girls aren't. Lesbian porn is okay, but I'm not totally into it. I'd make out with a girl or two, but I have a boyfriend, and I'd like his opinion on if it's okay since we're in a relationship. Anyway, being bisexual is natural and an okay thing. It's healthy to be attracted to a wide variety of people, just like it's okay to have no opinion on people's skin color. :) Whatever makes you happy, turns you on, or is enjoyable for you. 14 is a confusing age, since you're experiencing a lot of hormones, so be open to your feelings, but at the same time, analyze them thouroughly. Make decisions while knowing the consequences.
Good luck and enjoy your life, girl! :) -Carrie
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (22 January 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
Yep. Could mean you're bisexual. Or it could just mean that watching naked women turns you on a little bit. I know lots of girls who don't have an interest in hooking up with girls, but get turned on watching girls get sexual. Do you fantasize about BEING with other women, or do you just appreciate a good looking woman?
When I'm walking down the street, when I see a super hot chick, I notice her. I think to myself, "wow, that is one super hot chick". I don't think that's strange or unusual. But, if you're a little curious about what it would be like to BE with a woman, well - you're curious. And there's no need to be ashamed of that... this is the time in your life to experiment and see what/who you like.
If you ever do hook up with a woman, if you are really into it, then maybe you are bisexual. But right now I think you're young and open to possibilities. Curiousity is a wonderful thing.
Enjoy your youth, sweet thang.
xxIndia
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