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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:well i am 19 years old and i am totally in love with this guy studying in the same university with me..i just see him around the campus and i am head over heels for him..we kinda exchange looks but then i quickly look down i am that around him..i dont even know him then why do i think about him all the time..please dont ask me to go and talk to him because that would be wierd since it has been a year now and its too late i just want to get over him but i cant..i have no complex about the way i look and i easily get guys without making any effort..i may sound conceited but this is the truth..and thats the only reason i am shocked why hasnt this guy approached me yet..everyone in uni think we would look cute together but i really adore him for the way he is and the way he carries himself i have never felt this way ever before.like butterflies in my stomach and the other things..i like to see him but when he comes in front of me i just turn away like i dont care..y oh y???
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (2 August 2008):
 The elusive obvious....the reason he will not approach you is because when he is in front of you YOU PLAY GAMES and turn away as if you do not care. He would be more inclined to speak to you if you stopped rejecting him.
You are addicted to the drama of a relationship and anything like an actual intimate conversation could ruin the drama of the relationship that you play over in your mind.
You are repeating an unhealthy behavior pattern and it is costing you. Take some responsibility for the way your interactions turn out.
Good Luck.
-Frank B Kermit
http://www.frankadviceforwomen.com
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