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writes: dear cupid i dont have a boyfriend so i like 2 masterbate. Am i normal? I feel weird afterwards but it makes me feel better about myself. wat shud i do? shud i stop masterbating? please help me xoxoxo Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008): well all I can say is that I do the same things as you,,I do feel like we should be overcomers of doing this but for me if its wrong then im just as guilty as everyone else..there are 2 ways to look at this,,im sure you are a nice young lady that wahts to stay a virgin for that nice young man one day,,some people hade very strong sex drives and its very hard to control for some other than others..also whan you have that strong drive it keeps you from being on the street from catching std and you stay a virgin..beleive me I know what you mean and since you are young and have such strong drive just pray that God can help you but there will be times that you may cry and pray while still touching yourself,,if it means stayinga nice young lady and away from men to keep yourself pure just dont let it bother you in the moments that u have to feel relief..I thank you are such trutfful and wonderful young lady..the main thing just dont let this stop you from praying and God will give you your hearts desires if you trust him..eph..3:20
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): i do it all the time n i cum loads
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): you are not weird
its nomal
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (13 January 2007):
 It is normal.
End of.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): To the female anon below about religion and crap like that... Oh wait, I believe I just said it in my sentence.
So if the bible doesn't mention something, it must mean it's wrong then? The bible doesn't mention a lot of things. Did you know that the bible doesn't mention anything about dinosaurs, igloos, eskimos, hakka tribespeople, junk boats, amoebas, and bacteria? I'm guessing that those are just wrong things or non-existing things...
Advise her to stop masturbation? My gosh, I advise you to take your fundamental religious antics to the land of the tralala. What is fortunately abnormal is having you come here and tell this girl what she should or should not do based on something you read in some...
Nevermind. Ms. Anon question asker, do a search on masturbation and it will give you great stories, ideas, and advice on how to improve your self-pleasuring techniques. I'm sure if God created a clitorious and the legendary g-spot for women, they are meant to be pleasured either by a man, another woman, or the well-lubricated power tools of your fingers. If the exploding ripeness of a million oranges and bananas are to monkeys, then masturbation and massive orgasms are to girls and boys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2007): Just want to add this...There's no commandment about masturbation being wrong, either. I do believe "thou shalt not touch thyself" isn't on those big stone tablets that Moses carried down from Mount Sinai. My mother's a minister... I know this stuff. I'm up on my theology. The Commandments (abridged) go as follows:1) I am God. I brought you out of slavery. Me. I am God #1. No one will be before me.2) No making false idols. Worship a false idol and it's over. 3) Don't use my name in vain.4) The sabbath day is your day to chill out and your day to keep it real. Keep it holy.5) Honor your father and mother. Don't be jerks to your parents.6) Don't kill anyone.7) Don't commit adultery.8) Don't steal.9) Don't bear false witness.10) Don't covet your neighbors house, wife, slave, ox, donkey or anything that belongs to your neighbor. ANYTHING!Masturbation isn't noted. Sexual positions aren't included - unless they involve your neighbors wife, in which case - no. No good.Now, I'm not talking about the rest of the bible. There very well might be a passage about masturbation, I'm not sure. And many religions do see masturbation as a sin, which I respect just fine. All religions are different and interpret the bible in different ways. My version of religion doesn't see things that way - I was taught to embrace myself, learn about myself and love myself. I see masturbation as a clean, healthy way to do that. Simply my opinion. And to "anonymous", totally respect where she's coming from. That's a good angle to mention.... just giving you another angle to that angle. Ah! I'm confusing myself. I'm just going to go before my head starts to hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2007): I want to start by saying that i am not perfect. Masturbation is a sin before God. when u go through the bible, u will find out that there is no commandment tht mentioned masurbation as being right. U debase urself by so doing. I will advise u to stop.
thank u
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2007): masturbation is completely normal is is not unhealthy. if it makes you feel better towards yourself , well, more power 2u. trust me everybody does it, u have nothing 2 worry about
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2007): DeeDoc, are you on crack? What's with the excitement? [wink]
As for the answer, oh yes, completely 'normal'. Just keep doing it. In fact, there's a masturbation thread somewhere that might give you further ideas:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-masturbate-advice-please.html
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reader, DeeDoc  +, writes (11 January 2007):
 THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Oh my young friend, you are practicing the safest sex around dear. You are very NORMAL. I say if it feels good...DO IT! Git R DONE!! DO IT!
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reader, hannieseds  +, writes (11 January 2007):
 Hey there,
Do you feel weird because you think you're doing something wrong? You most certainly aren't! Enjoy yourself and push those doubting thoughts from your mind...I bet if you do that the next time you 'have a play' you will find it will feel even better! "Free the mind the body will follow" :o)
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (11 January 2007):
 Girl, love up ON yourself!!! Masturbate as much as you WANT! Even if you had a boyfriend, no harm in a little self love now and again!
If you like masturbating and it makes you feel good about yourself, girl - GO FOR IT!
I'm cheering you on, sweetness.
xxInida
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reader, Lilly223 +, writes (11 January 2007):
 Nope, no need to feel guilty, and better for you than random encounters! Perfectly normal, no worries.
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