A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: So I like these 3 guys and i think they all like me. But 1 part of me tells me that the guy I like the most wont be right like no chemistry.another guy I dont want to like but kinda do and that part of me tells me it is just making out thats all. Then last the guy I like but I feel ot would be perfect but how would I know. How would I know which guy is right for me? Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 October 2010):
Hmmm not enough info for me to tell you which one is your best bet. But listen to your female intuition, it's saying guy 3 would be perfect for you. You don't know till you try. I like Indie's tactic of writing a pros and cons list, it often puts things in better perspective for you. It's clear on paper who you should choose. Do make sure that whatever guy you do chose likes you but if not, you have 2 other options.
A
female
reader, Indie23 +, writes (18 October 2010):
This is a tricky situation you're in. I suggest you make a list for all the guys and write down the things you like about each of them and the things you don't like.
If one of these guys has a lot of things you like about him and not many things you don't like, you probably have your answer.
If this won't work for you then my best advice is to follow your heart, as corny as that sounds. Just choose who you care for the most and stop worrying about chemistry and who would be perfect for you. Just choose the one you can't imagine your life without.
Indie.
...............................
|