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writes: hi i am 15 and i like this 20 yar old we talk all the time and we get on really well but the thing is that i think he is to old for me. My mates say that it doesnt really mater what age they are. He tells me that he is in to me and that he fancys me a lot. He call me all the time and text me as well when he is not at work. he care for me a lot. he halp me throw wen my boyfriend dump me and he is all way ther for me. he is soon going to be 21 and i fancy him as well but i just dont konw what to do. Every saturday we have phone sex and we have it some time on a friday as well. but the other thing is that my mate fancy him as well and i dont konw what to tell her he dont fancy her he fancys me.He say he like haveing phone sex with me and that he say i get better at it every time. But the ting is that my m8 dont konw that we have phone sex. she just think he call me to talk to me. I tell her some time that he chat me up but wen ever i tell her that she get up set. So i dont tell her any thing any more coz i dont wont to up set her. Wen ever he call me and i am with her i have to tall him to call back she sak me who it was so i tell her it one of my other guy m8. She text him but he dont really wont her texting him but i dont no what to tell her.He tell her that he dont wont her texting him any more but she dont stop. I konw soon he is going to ask me out coz he ask me the other day if he ask me out what would i say and i said i did not konw. if he dus ask me out i dont konw if to go out with him or not coz of my m8 so this is what up with me so if any one can help i will be verry happy xxx so plz hapl
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reader, pica +, writes (11 November 2006):
rnb is totally right. I say too that age doesn't matter but attitude does and this guy is no good for you or your friend. You don't need a 20 year old using you for phone sex. Stop doing it, stop contact with him, he is using you all the way down the line. Sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): Hi there, I am probably not the voice you were hoping for here, but I am here to tell you that this 20 year old is breaking the law fooling around with a 15 year old child, he is a bit sick and dangerous and in my opinion you should cut all contact with him and so should your mate,
Aunts what do you think?
What are you thinking letting some dick wad talk dirty to you over the phone so he can get off, don't you have any more self respect than that? Why should he "ask you out" or do anything to have you as his girl, he is already getting the one thing that he wants from you, and that is he is getting off without even having to do anything for you.
Why would you like a creep like this in the first place? He is giving you some sexual attention, you don't need it, you are too good for that. Try finding a boy that wants to be your friend and do things with you that don't involve talking about sex or having sex..Someone who likes you for you, not for anything he can get off of you for little more than a whisper in your ear.
I feel sad for you I really do.
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