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writes:theres a guy i like on my college course who is several months older than me. I do not want to rush into anything with him, I want to get to know him better first, but I want to do it without making myself look desperare.I like him a lot but i dont wana rush things. is it ok for a girl to ask a guy out?also any tips on what to do in this situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym +, writes (2 November 2006):
 Is it ok for a white man to date a black girl, is it ok for a 25 year old to date a 30 year old, is it ok for a Manchester City supporter to date a Chelsea supporter, is it ok for an avid rock fan to date a classical music fanatic? Yeah of course, a girl asking out a man is no different to the examples I have given, because there is no right and wrong, traditionally yes the manmay ask out a woman, but nowadays, women do the asking!!! And so what??!!! Take care. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2006): One thing ive learnt is that if you dont ask you dont get. Boys arnt as smart as girls and he probably wont no you like him unless you tell him.
One of my good friends recently asked a boy to the winter prom. I honestly thought he'd say no cause hes eally good looking and shes normal looking to be frank. But he said yes, so it goes to prove that you have to go for the things that you want.
Good luck
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reader, stina  +, writes (2 November 2006):
 Hi Anon,
Of course it's okay for a girl to ask a guy out! Why don't you talk about something and see what comes up - like a movie that you two have been wanting to see - then you could see if he wants to go together. Or maybe a band that you like and maybe see if they're playing a show by you anytime soon. :)
Take care.
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