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writes:Hi All, rightly or wrongly i have decided to try and win my ex g/f back who dumped me. I have decided a cut off date to stop trying.What is the best way to try to win someone back? a) Total non contact so they see what life is like without you Or b) non contact now for a while and then reiniate contact as a friend whilst appearing string, happy, busy, non needy etc.I know not everyone agrees with tactics to win love but i will trying anything once for this girl and am prepared for any heartacheany advices appreciated,thx
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reader, corie +, writes (2 November 2006):
I agree with the post before me. you need to realize why you split and if it something you change that you are willing to change, then do it. If you love her then I would try to stay friends. Let her know how you feel but do not push her. If you stop talking to her she will take it as an opportunity to move on and might think that you don't want her back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2006): First off I would ask yourself if there is something you need to change about yourself that led up to the breakup, something you might be able to change, like your attitutde or possesiveness or something that went wrong. I would change that and remain in contact but not put any pressure on her, no convincing behaviors, pleadig or anything like that, just start over trying to be respectful and friendly, and GET OUT AND DATE other women and let her know about it that you are just having fun, nothing serious.
Maybe when she sees the changes in you, and your willingness to change and if you take care of her emotional needs by giving her attention and friendship, her feelings may return for you....that is pretty much all you can do, and I don't know about a cut off date, these things take time, and in the meantime, who knows maybe your feelings will change, or you may fall for someone who is more suited for you....you will just have to be patient.
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