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writes:Please people answer as soon as u can..... ok i have this problem i really like this guy and he told me he likes me too... i was talking to my friend today and she goes to his school and she told me that he still likes her and so does my ex bf and i feel kinda threatend by her and she sed she has kissed both of them... what must i do.. she told me not to tell them she told me please help me :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): ensure he doesnt like any other girls, ask him about girls he's liked in the past and etc. and find out if your so called 'friend' was in fact on his list. If not then mention you like him, cause in the end no friendship lasts forever espically one where you feel threatened.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx guys imma try those tings :)
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 Sorry Phoebe, I'm not a parrot, I couldn't see your post before I posted mine. Great minds...you know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): i believe the best thing to do would be tell the boy you like what you heard from her. confront him on it. he might not know what to say.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (5 August 2010):
Okay, first off, she's threatened by YOU not visa versa. And secondly, the reason she doesn't want you to tell them what she has said is because it's a lot of hooey. Ignore her and go about your business. Good luck with your new fellow.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 Hey :)
It sounds to me like your friend is feeling a little threatened by you! She says she's kissed both of them, doesn't mean it's true. It sounds very suspect that she's told you all these things to warn you off this guy that she likes, and then told you not to tell him.
If you're still hung up on who your ex likes, maybe you're not ready for a new relationship in the first place? If you like him and he likes you why don't you just talk to him, let him know you like him and ask him if he likes more than one person? If you can't be honest with each other, you probably wouldn't have the best relationship together anyway, right?
Also, have a calm chat with your friend. Let her know you really like this guy. Maybe if you can understand how each other are feeling and what you're thinking you can stop feeling threatened/in competition with each other. Friends are supposed to be there for each other, not cause each other problems/make each other upset. Maybe put friends before guys next time?
hope this helps,
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