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writes: there is a guy at school i really like, i have liked him for a few months now, he always gets called names at school cos he sometimes smells a bit sweaty. i know its not nice but i still like him. he doesn't always keep his self looking perfect and i know i could do a lot better than him and have in the past. but i cant help liking him. no one wants to sit with him at school. i am in most of his lessons this year and he sometimes site with me which i like. he tells me he likes me and he always asks me if i like him. what do you think i should do about this. i don't want to go out with him and get picked on as well but i do rally like him! do you think i'm been mean thinking i might get bullied if i go out with him or should i go out with him and not worry what other people say, we are both 15 and i know if it didn't work then i would have time for new relationships. i have had a few boyfriends but hes never had a girlfriend does anyone know what i should do? thanx for reading xx
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reader, cath14  +, writes (6 October 2007):
 Well i think you should admit to your feelings to him. If your friends really cared about you and were your friend they would understand. You shouldn't be botherd about what other people think aswell that you don't really know because its none of their business and its your life like you said your 15 and still got your full life ahead of you.
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX  +, writes (6 October 2007):
 First off, you shouldn't care what other people think, it's none of their business. Second, Some people cannot help how their boyd works, and its complelte rude and unfair to pick on someone for the way they were made. We have no say in our physical appearnce so why is it such a big deal? it's not like we can do anything about it.Third, and most important, if you truly like him, it shouldnt matter what he looks like. As drastic knowledge said, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and his personality should be more important that the way he looksif people tease you for dating him, they can screw themselves. and you need to let them know that you didnt ask for their opinion so the should keep it to themselves.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (6 October 2007):
 Why not give him a chance?
It sounds like he is a very nice guy although he may need a little help understanding that he needs to pay a bit more attention to his personal hygene.
That usually takes care of itself when a guy starts seeing a girl.
I was in a very similar case when I was in school. I didn't think I was very good looking and I had a very low self esteem. Probably for those reasons alone girls didn't seem to want to flock to me. However, when I did get aquainted with a girl they were shocked at how well they were treated by me. They became number one in my life.
Even now, having been married 27 years my wife braggs to others how even after all these years I do and always have treated her like a Queen. Yes, give him the chance. Doc
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reader, drastic knowledge +, writes (6 October 2007):
 go for it why let other people get in the way of what you think will make you happy
give it a shot
beauty is in the eye of the beholder
so everyone will have there own opion so give him a chance
since you really like him
what do you got to lose?
who ever wants to tease you for going out with him is too inmature to hang with anyways
good luck
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reader, drastic knowledge +, writes (6 October 2007):
go for it why let other people get in the way of what you think will make you happy
give it a shot
beauty is in the eye of the beholder
so everyone will have there own opion so give him a chance
since you really like him
what do you got to lose?
who ever wants to tease you for going out with him is too inmature to hang with anyways
good luck
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