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writes:I have a guy friend who I have feeling for and who until recently had a girlfriend. Anyway recently he keeps trying to hook up with me but in like a flirty jokey way which I wouldn't mind except for the fact he clearly doesn't want anything serious right now and I dont know what to do because I really like him
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2013): I strongly believe hes on the rebound, looking for a distraction- think about it,,when you've just come out of a relationship and still think about the person, (he's still got some feelings as it's so soon) the best fun way to take your mind off it is to fool around with others youre attracted to right?
I think of you talk to him he may not give you an honest answer- we don't know him, he may be the kind of person to do this. If so he would have to be an utter t**t to lead you on like that...
I guess yeah, talk to him come out straight with it, cos you don't deserve to be used. You know the guy, listen to your gut, and really think about if you can deal with the possibility of him breaking your heart, like AUnty BAbbit said.
Good luck x :)
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reader, Aunty Babbit +, writes (1 September 2013):
 Are you sure he isn't looking for anything more serious with you but might be hiding it in a jokey way in case you're not interested?Talk to him, privately, ask him if he means it or if he's messing with you, because you do like him.If he confirms that he likes you but doesn't want anything serious then that's a call for you whether you're prepared to take a risk that he won't fall for you and may break your heart.If he's only teasing then at least you know and can move forward.If he does like "like" you then wtg!If you say nothing you'll remain in turmoil until he gets a new g/f then kick yourself.Either way I think you need to ask him and tell him that you like him but don't get too heavy.Good Luck AB x
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