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writes:For a few months now, I have discovered I have very strong feelings towards this guy, who I know vaguely. My friends started to tell him that I like him and then I admitted it to him.His reply was "I've just come out of a relationship after 3 months so its a bit complicated"He also told my friends that he thinks I'm really pretty, which suggests he likes me.But he never said that he didn't want to be with me or anything so I took that as a good sign.However, yesterday, I saw him and a girl (now his girlfriend, possibly his ex) holding hands and kissing.My friends think that she asked him back out, so he just did anyway or something.I'm not sure whether to talk to him today about it so I can find out if he really does like me or just to leave it and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): Since he just got out of a relationship 3/months ago. I think it's best for you to leave him alone he might turn around and use you to get over his ex if he really likes you like that he will come to you but just because he said you were pretty doesn't mean that he likes you as a girlfriend.
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reader, 13AF  +, writes (7 July 2008):
Go ahead and get closer to him. You could blossom a great friendship or more. But be wary when trying for a relationship with him. Often times the "rebound" is used to incite jealousy in an ex, as revenge, or simply to boost self esteem. These relationships can be very temporary and hurtful to the "rebound", which would be you. Also, if he is going to run back to this girl on a whim (his or hers) he is not worth your time, especially if it happens more than once.
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reader, pinay23 +, writes (5 July 2008):
 You should start to become his friend and then maybe you two will grow closer. That's usually how a relationship begins.
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