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writes:So I'm 14 and there's this guy in my class that I have a crush on. I've liked him since 5th grade actually. I've never told anybody I like him because he used to be the kind of nerdy guy that didn't have any guy friends and was friends with mostly all of the girls. I wasn't one of those friends because I'm pretty quiet and sometimes those girls act pretty crazy. Like they start screaming at the top of their lungs or start dancing on the tables from the classroom. I know that's called having fun, but I'm just not that type of person. But now things have... changed. When he came after the summer holidays he looked different, he looked... hot. And while I was mustering up the courage to ask him out, he started dating another girl.What should I do? Every time I'm around him I start sweating like crazy and I just can't concentrate. For example a couple of weeks ago I was in a room with him (just the two of us), we were waiting for a certain teacher to bring us some essays from a contest, and we played tictactoe and hangman on the blackboard and stuff and... I just can't do it anymore!!! My feelings are just too strong! I can't pretend anymore! Please help me! What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): Although I think Blod's advice is good, you need to be careful if he's still dating the other girl. In that case, you probably need to leave him alone for now, because it will not end well if you try to get in the middle of their relationship. However, if he's single again, go for it! Maybe because he was kind of nerdy when he was younger, he doesn't know that there's a girl who goes for him. I know because I was in that case at that age. It could be something really special for both of you. Good luck!
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reader, Blod +, writes (11 February 2010):
 Tell him. He seems nice enough. The only way you're going to get anywhere is by being honest and telling him how you feel. Yes, it takes a lot of courage. But it sounds like you've got to the stage where you need to tell him. Good luck.
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