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*o158
writes:Ok i really like this guy i work with hes like my boss and older than me! i asked him out for a drink he said yes but he dont seem to interested. then it gets more complicated someone else likes him and asked him out i quized him bout it he said ehe would go out with me which hurt me i then ignored him for a few days, now hes not talking to me. but however hard i try to move on i cant stop thinking bout him what should i do??
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reader, jo158 +, writes (8 September 2007):
jo158 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok bit confusing hes not my boss boss hes my duty manager has to tell me what to do but someone else asked him out and he said yes to her im not really bothered about my job as its just a lifeguarding job a stop gap while i finish at uni but i cant stop liking him however hard i try
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): Walk away, this one seems a bit too immature for you. Beside you have the rest of your life ahead so why do you want to be miserable and caught up in a no go relationship.Enjoy life and have fun with your friends.take carexx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): I don't understand. What's the problem? He said he would go out with you twice? Someone else asked him too? What was that hurt you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): Get a grip of yourself, theirs plenty more fish in the sea!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): He's "like" your boss. I suppose you mean he IS your boss, and not that he resembles your boss.At any rate, dating your boss is not a good idea. You work for him, and he is the one who has to evaluate how you are performing on the job. Maybe you are doing well - but what if he has some negative criticism? How would you feel then?And you say someone else likes him. Office politics.....bad stuff.Give up any idea of going out with him and concentrate on your job - you don't need to continue thinking about him constantly if you are going to turn in a good performance.You were hired to do just that: do your work and do it well. THAT is the primary purpose, not to find someone to date!See if you can meet someone else.
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