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anonymous
writes:The man that I was dated the previous months now is always occupied with his work and his own matters. Although I have called him some times and seems interested to get out with me he doesn't eventually arrange a date. Sometimes he called me but I reacted with so much stress that he canceled the date at the end. I have a lot of stress with this relationship and I can't really see it as an easy going matter. During holidays he went alone visiting a friendly house in an island. I went also vacations with a girlfriend of me for a week without told him that at first. He didn't seemed to be angry at first but a little surprised. I think he wanted to see me when I was on vacations for ten days. I am really interested about him and I do not want to loose him. What's the best way to react? Reply to this Question
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reader, DV1  +, writes (5 September 2007):
 I'm in the same boat as him. What it comes down to is lack of time. He's not trying to offend you, or drive you away. In this day and age, a lot of people get a job, not foreseeing that they could be taken advantage of by the place that they're working at. You give a little bit in availability, and they take a mile. Give him time, and see if he can work out his schedule. I'm sure that it's not personal at all, so if you really like him, be willing to let him work it out.DV1
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): Well, you certainly don't SOUND very interested in him - nor does he sound particularly interested in you.You tell us that when he does call you, you react with all the stress you're experiencing. That's not very encouraging.I recommend you call him - once - and make firm plans for a specific day and time to get together. If he beats around the bush (is vague) I would let it drop. Do not call him again after that.
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