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30-35,
*ara Petra123
writes:I asked him out before . I know for a fact that he liked me otherwise I wouldn't have. He said maybe and 2 days later said not now maybe after the exams thanx for asking. After the summer he was watching me all the time and we spoke and once but we were both really nervous and his friends were kicking footballs towards us. When my friend mentioned my name to him his face brightenes up.1.Ignore you when his friends are around becasue he 's in the popular group and you're not.2.Sometimes his friends do things like tease him infront of me. Like one I walked around the corner and one of his loud friends said ‘’Isn’t that the girl you lik?’’ then shouted (asked) if I was single as I was walking away. Another time before then I was walking outta school and his friends (the loud ones) were shouting his name and then she's going and things like stop. I looked back and he was standing on his own by the gate and was looking in my direction.3. It seems like he's looking but then when you think about it you're not sure.4. He will look at you when his quiet friends are with him and not the rowdy ones..5.He will go for about 2 weeks or so of ‘ignoring me’ or me not seeing him looking then trying to look and sit near my table for like a weekHe’s shy and in the popular group but tries to look good in front of friends……Today me and my friends were walking down the corridor and him and one of the loud friends were infront of us. His friend looked back and then tapped his shoulder then they both looked back. We’re 17
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (10 April 2008):
 Well, the pressures of belonging in the right 'group' as a teen are huge. He might well like you, but does he have the guts to date outside his circle?
Maybe, if he doesn't, well then what you lost is a guy who cares more about his image then love, not much lost there, however much it hurts.
You made the first move, it really is up to him now. Perhaps he really just wants to wait till exams are over, a gf takes a lot of time, in itself it is not a bad thing.
I think he really is intrested in you, but too insecure. Better hope you have fallen for a guy who is worthy of you and doesn't just care about how he looks in front of his friends. For now, pass your exams and see what happens.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (10 April 2008):
 Oh Yeah,
He likes you. Absolutely. Unfortunately, he is letting his group pick who he can go out with, so it would seem. I bet if you hung around with other guys a bit, it might push him enough to get a backbone and make a move of his own. Hope he comes around and realizes that it doesn't matter what group you are in and asks you out. Good luck with everything.
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