A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ok here goes.. I absolutely love this girl and were r really close.. But the problem is she has a boyfriend.. Ive told her how I feel, and she says its cute but she doesnt like me in the same way... She has told me things she has never told anyone and vice versa.. And I dont know what to do.. Cos I'm not really a popular guy among girls.. And she's like the only girl who likes me more than a friend.. I just dont know anymore.. All advice is aprriciated...
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 I'm sorry to tell you this, but you have to let this go.
Not only she already has a boyfriend, but she sadly doesn't feel the same way you do. You have to realize that can't make a person love you, so pretty much the only thing left for you to do is just leave this alone.
So what's left for you is to appreciate that this girl sees you as her best friend, because this is what you sound like. Don't let your emotions overtake you and end a friendship that could last a very long time.
Is there a clear reason why you're unpopular with the girls? One thing that makes girls attracted to guys is confidense, and being nice does not suffice. Also, flirting helps a lot.
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