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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:the thing is i like a girl in my class at college(uk) but i know she has a boyfriend. i don't know if she is happy or not with this guy i am assuming she's happy and i only know his name i haven't seen him or met him or whateverand they have been going out for about 2 years i think so i don't think that i have a chance with her but there is still a minimal chance.i know that sometime people often tell girls if they like them or not and what i want to know is should i tell her that i like her or should i just leave her be and tell her when or if she becomes single again and i still like her?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 You are both young, so relationships are not meant to last anyway. If you decide to steal her away from her boyfriend you have to prepare for rejection. You can become her friend first so she won't suspect anything. Find excuses to do activities with her. Then slowly by slowly get closer to her. Make your conversations more personal gradually. When the moment is right you can even kiss her. Her acceptance of meeting you regularly is a sign that there is potential and you could make a move when time is right. Her starting to feel guilty of spending time with you is also a good sign. You got to show her that you have qualities she craves that her boyfriend doesn't. Make sure you are always there whenever she is pissed off with her boyfriend. Usually girls like guys who know what they want and are confident. Spend enough time with her, at the same time let her know that you are seeing other girls also.
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