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female
age
26-29,
*ian
writes:Hi cupid...my problem is that I'm in love with my CL teacher. Ever since he started to comment me and my prayer I felt like I had a crush on him. I really want him but he has a wife.I want to let go of him but I can't since I see him almost everyday. When he looks at me it's like he has the same feelings. Then there's this classmate of mine whom I have a crush on too. I have mixed felins for them. Oh no! Please tell me what to do!
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reader, Ears4tears  +, writes (21 September 2007):
 hey sweetie,
Good news is your not alone, i think most girls have had a crush on one of there teachers at one point or another. I once had a crush on one of my PE teachers as did many of the other girls in my year we spent ages in the changing rooms after PE discussing how gorgeous his bum was HEHEHE!!
Having a crush on your teacher is harmless as long as you understand that i wont go any further, hes in a position of responsibilty its his job to talk and guide you nothing more. Crushes dont last forever while your young, its the frill of your crush being unavaliable that makes it more exciting and CONFUSING for you!!! As for the other lad maybe you should try talking to him that way when you get to know him better you'll be able to decide for sure whether you really do like him.
Your still young hun so enjoy it, coz it dont last forever
xxxx
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female
reader, Gian +, writes (21 September 2007):
Gian is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay so how do i let go? and every time he looks at me it's like he's staring at me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): well, is good to love as bible says that love your neighbour as you yourself,good, you love your class teacher and your class mate, my advice is just that love no one mosti mean the love should be equally so that GOD can be happy with you what you can gain from a teacher you can also gain from a class mate.to me i always do my thing to satisfy GOD.
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reader, Gian +, writes (21 September 2007):
Gian is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey! um...whoever you are..I may not know you but thanks for the advice.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (21 September 2007):
 first of all, you are so young! i can honestly say, your teacher does not in any way have feelings of any kind for you. he's praising your good work, which is what teachers do. there is absolutely no way at all this man will ever be intersted in a little girl and you do not love him, unfirtunately your hormones are flying everywhere and you are confused because you should know how inappropriate and wrong it's be for a man of his profession to give out signals which aren't really there.
as for your class mate, maybe you can get to know him, speak to him and become his friend, maybe over time, he'll like you too??
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