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writes: Ok i have this guy friend who i like very much. I dont want to be jeaouls over this other girl but she is always trying to sit with him on the bus and today she put her head down on his book bag which was on his lap. There not goin out but i felt so uncomfortable turning around today and seeing that. It made me sick. I played it cool and talked to him the whole time on the way back to school. I justed wanted some advice on what i should do. Should i be mad about this?
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reader, damagincutie +, writes (22 April 2006):
you ARE obviously mad about it,but u shouldnt be.he,ur friend, doesnt know how u feel about him does he?i think not.if he doesnt know,then its okay for him to be flirting with other girls, he doesnt know u like him.u havent told him.its not like hes cheating on u.if u really wana relationship thats more than just friendly with this guy,u really should talk to him n at least tell him u like him.if he likes u too,then thats great!u get what u want.if he doesnt,that okay too.yeeah youll be crushed for a while, but ull get over it n move on to someone who does return ur feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2006): Your last question is invalid. You are obviously mad about this. You don't want to be jealous, but you are blatantly jealous. So what's your question? What you should do?
Well, either you tell him and try to get something going between you two, or you continue to be jealous and mad all the time, until another boy comes along, etc.
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