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anonymous
writes:I like my boss But he is married Thing is I really want him!What do i do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): I know replys here have been cold –Just leave him alone right? I know that’s not what you want to hear; BUT… from my own experience here goes: I fell in love with my boss a few years ago, I knew he was married but he would tell me horrible things about his wife (like they all do). i.e. she’s lazy, she’s lost her figure, [here’s the big one] she doesn’t want to have sex with me anymore, all she cares about are the kids, she doesn’t clean the house and so on and so on. So of course I like all other women that have been with married men feel compled and sorry for this guy. Plus he’s hot & you can’t believe anyone would throw away such a great catch.
At a company BBQ I met her and she was a dream, beautiful, very intellectual, great figure, high energy, everything he said she wasn’t. I was bold and asked her what was wrong with her husband that they are getting a divorce? She looked at me in shock and of course got upset. She said she didn’t know what I was talking about and where did I hear such stupidity. I told her I was new to the dept & didn’t quite know all the executives and might have misunderstood the gossip.
I confronted my “lover” and asked him what the heck was going on. Said to me he just likes having sex with me. I too very much enjoyed having this hottie having sex with me, but he looked so ugly to me now. He wasn’t this charming guy I thought. You will always feel 2nd place – sex isn’t with love, he would never give his life up for you. It is sooo not worth it. Really think about it, and now I suggest that you drop the whole thing & save you time, and hurt. Best wishes, a former 2nd place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): Not only is this guy married but he is your boss. Put yourself in his wife's shoes. How would you feel if you knew someone in work was trying to get with him? If you try to get with this guy you're going to embarass yourself and make working together a living hell. I advise against it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): LEAVE THE MAN ALONE. Key words, married and your boss. If the situations enhances, both of you will get fired. He's your boss and married. Move on, girlie.
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