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writes: When my friend walked in the door at home, i had us go around the other way to the computer so we wouldn't walk in front of my step dad. I keep replaying the whole thing in my head and wondering if i did it because he will think she is fat and then when we walked to my room, i wondered what he'd say. No matter what someone looks like. if they are purple,pink, blue, black, white, too short or too tall, 50 lbs. or 500 lbs. i will still care about them and be their friend but it bugs me about what i just said. I keep obsessing i actually went through another part of the house so he wouldn't see us and wondered what he'd think when he saw her. Although, i am a good friend besides this. I feel like a horrible friend because i obsess over "what if she knew i did that" My step dad is SOOO nice so it wasn't because i thought he would say something. He has a heart of gold like me! He wouldn't say anything out loud. but people have thoughts ya know?but i feel guilty for going and doing that Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): Ummm? Miss confusing.. I think you're the one that needs to rethink what you just typed. It seems you're the one concerned about what people thinks of her. If your step-father has a heart of gold, why would he even think that? Yeah, people have their own thoughts but some wouldn't say it out loud. That's natural.
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