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I like it but got freaked out... What should I do now?

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Question - (19 July 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Hey guys i really need some advice. im 16 and my boyfriends 15. weve been together 3 weeks and things have started to get a little intamite, i mean all we've done is kiss but last time we kissed intamitly he put his hand up my top and was touching my brests it came as a huge surprise to me and i moved so suddnely that he pulled away and hasnt kissed me since. have i done something wrong did i put him off me? im really confused and the ironic thing is that i didnt want him to stop but he has and im really shy now and im always shakey around him now. what should i do? any advice would be usfull. thanks in advance

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A female reader, JJanswers +, writes (23 July 2006):

JJanswers agony aunthey chick,don't worry, i have done the exact same thing. but the fact that he pulled away is a good thing, it means he respects you enough not to push anything that he feels your not ready for. all you need to do is talk to him about it, just say that you were suprised by that doesnt mena you wanted him to stop. tell him that he was right in doing what he did and to not worry about you not being ready, confront him and tell him how you feel. goodluck girl. xx

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A male reader, Allio121 +, writes (19 July 2006):

Allio121 agony auntjust talk to him and hopefully he will understand as he most likely interpreted it the wrong way

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (19 July 2006):

Angelicc agony auntI don't think he's gone off you but he many feel that he's forcing you into something your not ready for and doesn't want to push.

Speak to him about find out from him

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