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writes:My boyfriend and I want to try me on top, but I have NO idea what I am doing! Please help me! How am I supposed to move? What do I do? He claims women LOVE this position, but we already tried it once, and I couldnt even get him in me Reply to this Question
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reader, FromMars +, writes (28 November 2008):
This is one position; woman can control the complete movement. Start with the position you usually do with and then once you are at peak, just take this position. The reason he is not entering you may be because he is not flaccid.
When you are on top sway only your hips and keep your upper body slightly slanting towards him. You can do the same being vertical, but may have to move all your upper body. You can move it up and down and in between sideways too. Occasionally you can rise a bit and allow him to make the up and down movements from below.
You can try facing him and also facing his legs. The former would give him access to your tits and the later one gives him a swaying sight of your ass, if he likes to see. Enjoy the fun and don’t do it in a hurry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): why dont you have a experimenting session were you dont take sex super serious and try out all positions slowly and find out whats right for you. only do this if your comfortable and then when you do have loving sex itl put you at ease
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2006): Not all woman love the position but I can see what he was saying. It is deep penetration, it is stimulus on the clitoris, it is stimulus on the G-spot located inside the vaginal wall.
Being that you are new to this, your apprehension is apparent.
Leigh gives some good advice.
Tell him you are nervous and want to try it but maybe at another time when you become more comfortable with your sexual "prowess".
I think he is very understanding as he is wanting you to feel pleasure.
You will know the time when you feel closer to your boyfriend and trust in him to re-try the on top position.
Relax and take your time.
Best wishes.
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reader, Leigh +, writes (19 July 2006):
You need to make sure that you're wet enough and in the right position, sometimes you can angle it wrong and it just feels uncomfortable, you may find it easier to start out with him on top and then change into you on top, and just move however you want, you can sit up straight, you can angle your body or you can lie against his, you can move up and down his dick, so that it slides in and out, or you can move forwards and backwards, you just need to discover your rhythm and what you want, and you should love this position.
But only do it if you feel comfortable, not because he wants you too.
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