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anonymous
writes:So i recently broke up with my boyfriend after about a year and 8 months.. because i had feelings for another guy. I got really into this other guy and we were getting on soo well, we'd never made anything official but he told me he liked me a lot.I then find out he's planning on moving to canada from england for 7 months. i was kinda gutted as he gave me the impression we would eventually be together.. i know in my heart that a long distance relationship will not work for me. He then asked me if i would wait for him to come back.. then we would be together... then he changed his mind and wasnt sure if he would want that.. which is understandable.So for a week now he has been ignoring my texts, and i saw him around and he walked past me like i was a stranger.. and he definitely saw me!Im just confused and not sure what to do.. i think i like him to much to just walk away, but i dont want to pester him and seem desperate. ahhhh! :(
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (10 June 2011):
Take some time to think about what you want to happen with him, given the circumstances, and then tell him. That's it. He is obviously not sure what he wants to do so he is avoiding you, and your feeling that pestering him is a bad idea is probably right. I would call and tell him, or leave a voicemail telling him, or email him telling him that you like him, and you would like "X" to happen, whatever that is, and then tell him you won't contact him he can contact you when he has decided what he wants, if anything. Then go on and live your life, if you hear from him good, if not, you know where you stand.
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