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*ikkichick66
writes:My friends boyfriend has never shown a big interest in me besides little signs that always make me think he sort of liked me. And my friend has been dating this kid for not a long time and he even admitted to me that he isn't feeling it with her. Then he said he liked me and I like him too! I've liked him ever since the start of the year, way before they were dating but my friend doesn't know that! The thing about her is we aren't great friends...just so so friends so I'm thinking it's okay but my bff is food friends with her and I don't want her talking to my bff about me being a man stealer! I like this guy! Please please please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 Maybe if he is such a sweet kid that does not like to hurt people's feelings... he did not have the heart to disappoint you and tell you that he is not so much into you.
Regardless. Until the moment he leaves his current g/f , his " I like you " means absolutely nothing. Words are a dime a dozen.
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reader, nikkichick66 +, writes (28 March 2011):
nikkichick66 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIcare4u in return to your question, i have no idea why. Honestly he is a genuine sweet guy and he doesn't have the heart to dump her. He also wasn't the first to tell me. I asked him for a little joke with my friend and when he said yes I jumped for joy. Does this change the situation or is it still the same?
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reader, Icare4u  +, writes (28 March 2011):
Yes, CindyCares and Honeypie have a point. But why..why..why does he string her along? Did he tell you he liked you first or did you tell him first? Stick with your friend and maybe after a while they will drift apart but not because of you. Then go for it
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (26 March 2011):
He can't be "feeling " you so much either- if he is still with her. Don't just listen to what men say - watch what they DO.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (26 March 2011):
 Stick with your friend. If he doesn't want to be with her he should break up with her not string her along while flirting with you.
Number 1 rule in the Girl Code...
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