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26-29,
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writes:I've been talking to this guy, we'll call him D. We've been talking for a week and I like him. So far. The thing is, I've been hurt so much in the past, idk what to believe. He's friends with 4 of his exse, and I'm not friends with any of mines. Should I worry or be jealous ? Mind you, we started going out on Saturday.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (21 November 2011):
 Do you not have any male friends?
So what if he's friends with his exs? He's permitted to have female friends, even if they're previous girlfriends. You CANNOT tell him that he needs to stop being friends with his exs so you two can be boyfriend-girlfriend. He most likely won't ever start a relationship with you if that's the case.
Don't apply what happened in your past (cheating, dishonesty) to your future relationships. The two have nothing to do with each other. Give your boyfriend trust until he does something to make you question it.
Leave your jealousy at the door on Friday.
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reader, mammaboo  +, writes (21 November 2011):
 I think it is normal to worry about this as most of the advice given on here and anywhere else will be that you don,t ever really stay friends with ex,s. But he is very young and boys donot mature as quickly as girls in such matters of the heart.
If you stay with this guy and you are strong enough to rise above this you will learn alot from the experiance. Eventually you will find someone who shares your views. There will be guys out there who would never dream of putting them befor you and their friendship will not mean anything compared to yours.
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