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writes:okay i met this guy in january at a basketball game i was cheering for,i had a bf then, but my relationship with my bf ended after my bday.my crush... he has the most amazing big lips any who he is so perfect for me.. hes mexican... i havent dated a mexican since i was 14. any who thats not it i really like him and i know he likes me too. but evry time we set up a date some thing happens. first time we were meeting up for coffe. a couple of guy friends were there when i got to the coffe shop. they offered to keep company until the guy arrived unfortunally when he did he saw my guy friends and left........ that was my fault? he didnt tallked mt ome untill like a week laternext time i invited him for a beach bbq which he had promised to go with me... he never showed up. icalled 3times no answer.... i got tired and left to the bbq... it ruined my day well the begining of it any ways.....now when we talk we get in arguements all the time.. and he has crazy mood swings...i reallly like this guy, hes evrything i dreamed of a guy, but he keeps standing me up what do i do?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay thanx alot for the advice..
at first i thought it was my fault for hanging out with guys...
then i asked him out twoo more times n took care of him when he broke his ribs but still no attention and he kept on standing me up i guess he wasnt into me even tho he kept saying he wanted a relationship n to be my bf he made m efeel like it wasmy fault he never showed up....! gosh whats wrong with him or me??
so yeh it bugs me but im over him even tho he was perfect for me i guess he wasn t after all
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question no its not just his nationlity and lips although they are great...
no this is not a high school thing we in university...he wasnt a player... hes freinds with a fellow cheerleader of mine.....
i really do like him, he cares for me and treats me real nice hes a total gentleman he calls when he says he will. we talk evry night. hes attentive, a guy i would bring home to the parents.. he even gave me his email and myspace, facebook etc passwords...idk why but he did.we have been trying to get together but something always happens... but lately he has these crazy mood swings he wasnt like that b4... its like hes all nice then hes all off angry.. he apoligizes for it n says he doesnt knw why he acts taht way but wont say anything or let me help him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question no its not just his nationlity and lips although they are great...
no this is not a high school thing we in university...he wasnt a player... hes freinds with a fellow cheerleader of mine.....
i really do like him, he cares for me and treats me real nice hes a total gentleman he calls when he says he will. we talk evry night. hes attentive, a guy i would bring home to the parents.. he even gave me his email and myspace, facebook etc passwords...idk why but he did.we have been trying to get together but something always happens... but lately he has these crazy mood swings he wasnt like that b4... its like hes all nice then hes all off angry.. he apoligizes for it n says he doesnt knw why he acts taht way but wont say anything or let me help him...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): The only things you really said that you like about him are his nationality and his lips..
Do you really like him for the right reasons?
Becuase my understanding of liking someone is that he/she treats you with respect, listens, gets along well, has a good personality, etc..
And I therefor don't see any evidence of you REALLY liking this guy. Maybe it's jsut a highschool, i cheered for him and he's good-looking thing, but if i were you, i would think about whether or not you do like him. Because the way he's acting doesn't give you a reason to.
As the others said, he doesn't really seem worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): he has crazy mood swingsyou don't know him at all reallyhe stood you up without even finding out who those guys were (they could have been family)all the warning signs are there that he isn't worth getting involved withYou just fancy him, he is not your ideal man at allThink with your head not your eyesStop talking to him if all you do is argue
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