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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Alright so here is the deal:I started High School about 2 months ago and,as always for youngsters,I managed to get a crush on this girl. Luckily for me,she appareantly felt the same way about me. Things were going great but a bit fast,after only 2 weeks we basically saw each other as GF/BF. We kissed each other on the cheeks (never on the lipts),held hands whenever we had the chance,etc.Then a word reached me that another boy in my class also likes this girl,the problem is that they were always pretty close and have known each other longer than me and the girl.All of a sudden this girl started to distance herself from me and I obviously noticed it and comfronted her about it. She said that she likes both of us and doesn't want to hurt either so she said she's not gonna choose between us. I told her I was going to stop being with her as much as I've been the last couple of weeks and she got heartbroken but I honestly didn't care cause it felt as if she had tricked me this whole time.We stoped looking each other at school completely,and after about 4-5 days(Thursdays 13th)she sent me an offline message on facebook saying that she's sorry for everything. I asked her what "everything" is and it ended with her elaborating,saying that she is sad that I've gotten closer with other people and that she's sorry for not talking with me this week. I told her that she hasn't done anything wrong,you don't want to talk to me? Fine,whatever.1 more school day left of this week and I ignored her COMPLETELY. Never even looked at her. Some of my friends said that she was looking at me constantly.Anyway. She put up a song on her facebook wall which basically explained everything between us (Adele - Don't you remember) and I felt like a dick so I wroted to her on facebook and said "Hi :)". We helt a small conversation for about 5minutes and whenever the convversation died she always tried to light it up,looked like she was putting "a lot" of effort.I just noticed this is veeeeeeeeeeeerryyy long. Anyway...so my question is: Should I talk and try to become friends one more time (and eventually (hopefully) maybe something more in the near future)?Thank you all in advance :D
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reader, stateside  +, writes (17 October 2011):
Couldn't disagree with the above more! If you guys were in fact dating and she went to another guy for a date, it's over. Girls like that are hard to handle. What you should do is get close with her girl friends, her best friend, may be even the guy she also likes ex girlfriends.
If you think that she has treated up unfairly, go after his ex, go after her girlfriends, play offense.
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