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writes: I've liked this girl for nearly 6 months. I told her how I feel after about 3 weeks but the timing was just awful. She had just gotten out of a relationship and was in the middle of other things and she told me such.But since then we've gone from strength to strength. We get on so well, she finishes my sentences and I finish hers. We do things together all the time and I can never think of anything better than doing something with her. I've become her confident in most mattersOnly problem is that she has been asked out by about 8 guys in the past 3 weeks...its practically every guy she knows and even some she doesn't. She's told me how bad this makes her feel and she specifically said "they don't think about what they make me feel when they tell me". So I'm stuck in a catch 22 situation, the only thing I can offer her any different to any other guy is that I consider how she feels before I tell her which causes me to not tell her how I feel.I feel so trapped by the situation. I'm crazy about her, but I feel I can't say anything, even though I think she might feel the same way...I don't know what I'd do without her and I'm really afraid I'd lose what I have by saying anything. What do I do?
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reader, guylostinlove +, writes (16 December 2006):
Did she say NO to all of them?
If she did ... and she told you that ... then sounds like she's most likely giving you a hint. Perhaps it's time to ask her again ... especially if you guys have been getting along so well. I see no harm it in ... at least if she says no again, you'll get those thoughts of our your head and you guys can be really good friends instead.
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