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I've supported her at college, but after drunkenly flashing a club she needs time to think!

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Question - (27 March 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey,

Me and my gf have now been together nearly 2 years.

We're both young and when we met were both living at home. After about 9 months she had to leave her home due to a relationship breakdown with her mother.

She moved in with my mum while i stayed with my dad. It worked fine, I bought her a phone, laptop, car, anything she needed to get settled with her new surroundings and she got into the college she wanted.

Since she turned 18 she's been going out a lot with her college friends, no problem. The last few weeks shes been emotional and secretive, its now been revealed on a drunken night she repeatedly flashed her boobs to the whole club and kissed a girl.

She now says she needs time to think about what she wants, she has blamed most of this on being behind on her college work and by over thinking problems shes had with her family before we met. She's very happy living with my mum and her partner though.

As it stands we're neither together nor apart, i'm awaiting her decision on what she wants and now she says she just wants time to think.

Whats your take?

Its all swings and roundabouts i guess

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A female reader, d'writer Philippines +, writes (27 March 2011):

d'writer agony auntYou are still young and very responsible, you still have a full life ahead of you and will meet a lot of people that could make your life a better one if not the best someday. If you make your door open to other possibilities, I know for sure a lot of women will for you because of your good qualities. Just don't play games...

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