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writes:Ive known this girl For 2 years already, weve been best friends, we talk alot and even Talked about dating but she sometimes gives me signs to show she dont care anymore, I really Like her and want to ask her out, But dont know what to say, any advice to win her over??
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reader, 02DuszJ  +, writes (29 June 2014):
 Ouch... It's intense crushing on a best friend... Most if us have been there and there is ALWAYS that world- crushing possibility they'll reject you... But possibility of rejection will NEVER go away...
At your age, I would advise taking things very slowly, invite her out in "date" style activities,
Go for picnics, days out at the beach, just the two of you, and try flirting a bit, nothing extreme just subtle gestures, lingering touches on her arm, look deep into her eyes, be protective and get her gifts... Be romantic, show her what could be in store for her, engage your imagination- what do you both like? Can you draw? Write her a jokey poem?.. Girls mostly pick up on these things and I think if you get good vibes, if it feels right just tell her straight up. That's the only way you can move forward.
If it doesn't feel right it's not meant to be... There's nothing you can do, and putting the feelers out there will let her know gently, so she won't be caught off guard if you just come out with it.
Go slow and if ( or when, as they always do) things get rocky, hang on tight... Good luck :) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2014): hi there. it sounds like you've got a tiny problem, but it can be solved. i'm basically the same age as you and a girl so maybe i can help, sometimes a woman's perspective is just as good as a man's. from my point of view it seems to me that she may be a little lonely... that may be the reason why she's acting like this. she may see it this way: you two talked about dating, but nothing is happening (no offence), because i didn't have more than 1 boyfriend (and that time i was 7) in my life (and normally girls my age all-ready have boyfriends) i can just imagine how she is feeling. maybe you can take her out for a movie or something to eat as a "treat", that may start to break the ice and if she asks why you're doing this...well if you see a good chance then you can tell her how you feel. maybe she's waiting for you to make the first move. you must follow you heart but don't do something you'll regret... think before you act. like i said this is my point of view and i'm not saying you should do it, maybe you have something better in mind and did you ask your parents what they think... you know it's always a good idea to ask them to... they were also teenagers like you. hope this helps. :)
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