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writes:im 14 and there is this guy who i have known for ages,we have been out before but i dumped him because i over reacted about something, but halloween 2007 i fell out with another friend and now neither of them are talking to me but i want to make friends but i want to go out with the one ive known for ages so what do i do about it because they are my best friends and they meen the world to me
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (7 January 2009):
 Okay, this is a little hard to understand, so maybe that's why you haven't had any answers. If you write in complete sentences it helps a lot.
You need to talk to them, one-on-one, calmly and with a spirit of reconciliation. I would not push to go out with the guy just yet until you resolve whatever issue caused you to fall out. If you had a stupid argument about something trivial, say that you're sorry you overreacted and that you want to make amends and get back to being close again.
Try to watch the drama, it's easy to feel so strongly that the emotions tend to cause an overreaction. Think before you speak, and put yourself in their shoes. How would what happened affect them? How might they be feeling? Prudence and empathy are good things for you to work on.
Good luck!
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