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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: dear cupid, okay so im in the middle of 3 guys. im not promiscuous or anything, ive just been hurt really bad in the past and im trying to figure out who i really like,and i havnt had sex with any of them either. so here are their personalitys 1st guy sweet,funny but very sensitive, 2nd guy funny "jock" but was hurt in last relationship 3rd guy thee sweetest, funny, dorky ..3 years older!so my problem is i like all three but i dont know who i like more . i feel like im only reaally into them when they are not that into me at that moment. 1st guy is really not talking to me anymore because as we were talking i started talking to the 2nd guy and i started to really like him and he knew i was talking to the 2nd guy , but i ended up kissing the second guy and the 1st guy got soo upset and told me the reason why he was so upset is because he LOVED me! i worked it out with him and we started talking again then 3 days after we started talking again he asked me out and i said i couldnt, (in the nicest way) and he just stoped talking to me again ! the thing is i wasnt that into him until he got mad at mem the 1st time then we started talking again and i lost that feeeling again , then hes not talking to me and i cant stop thinking about him and i saw him walking with and flirting with a girl today, i think to make me jealous, and it worked i am sooo jealous and soo upset ! i dont know what to do !! please help !
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2011): it all sounds a bit confusing honsetly i dont think you should rush this decision however if guy can so easily stop talking to you just because you said no to going out with you doesnt sound reliable, all the other qualitys are good but can also b found in friends too.just think to yourself can you c yourself with any of them 5,10 maybe 15 years down the road
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