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male
age
30-35,
*shrock1990
writes:I met this girl while attending 2 weeks program,and i really liked her.We used to talk sometimes in class.She asked me to draw her a portrait when she came to know i draw good.Then i asked i wanted something in return like going out for cafe or something and she said she is busy with her college and dont get time..i was like huh. just say no instead of making such excuse..bu still i liked her a lot,and thought of saying her that i liked her..but never got chance to say directly cause she was always with her friends..so i decided to make her a sketch and put a letter underneath telling about my feelings and how she was special.. with all that appreciation..i even wrote that i know she dont have feelings for me but would want to be friends atleast..i gave that sketch to her on last day of program..and she was surprised and thanked me...and smiled..i asked for her number..n then later that day..i got her msg saying she loved that sketch very much and thanked me...i asked her if she read that letter.then she replied she did and she respected wat i wrote..after that day ..i sent her few msgs saying "hi hru" but she nevr replied...after 3 days i said her sorry for that letter on fb...but she still dint replied..i then called her and asked if she was upset..she said she wasnt upset and sketch was good..thats it..n said she has work to do so i hanged up saying her bye...she sounded so uninterested while talking..then i sent her msg on fb asking if she can meet me once..before i go back to my place..she didnt even cared to reply still..not even a no or yes...it just hurted me and i stopped msging her...i do like he a lot..and not a day goes by when i dont think of her...should i keep trying or just try to forget her.which isnt easy cause always she pops up in mind Reply to this Question
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (17 September 2012):
 Oh wow you just pushed it tooo hard..you dint give the girl a chance to act,you were constantly harrowing her with your unrending phonecalls,texts,fb messages..
What could have done is once you gave her sketch and the letter and later that day you texted her and she dint respond to your letter she just said she respects what you have for her,now that's a clear sign she sees you as a friend and nothing more than that..so you shouldn't have pursued her,it would be hard but why waste time..you could instead focus on being friends with her,may be she'l see more in you than just some person who drew her a sketch..
Now I think the damage is done first u sent a text,then u apologised to it,then u asked her to meet you did too many things without even waiting for her to respond..I think you should forget about this girl and move on..
If you can't then you can send her one last text say'hey sorry for hovering around you soo much,my emotions got the best of me..I'm glad you like a sketch and if ever u want to get done you know where to find me:)have a nice day..and good luck with everything you do'..
So yeah either forget her and send that text if she doesn't reply then u really need to understand to stop texting and calling her and move on!!
Good luck
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