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*lex2011
writes:I was broke up around 6 months ago with my ex girl friend. I was thinking immature at that time. she is wonderful girl friend i ever had, she did nothing wrong, but i left her because i see someone else. my new girl friend is 16 years older than me. i'm 27 years old right now. But lately my mind keep thinking about my ex, it seem that i still feeling guilty that i hurting her. i can't get her out from my minds. i love my new girl friend. i was in relationship with my ex for 2 years. i broke her heart so bad just because i meet someone new. I broke up with her because she gave me less attention. I was thought that my new girl friend can give me more attention but i'm wrong, She is very busy.i keep asking my self why i still feeling guilty so much to my ex? i'm suffering that randomly when i'm alone, my mind keep me thinking about my ex. What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): Break it off with your current gf. It's not fair to her that your mind and heart are with your exgf, then get on the ball and contact your exgf and spill your guts before its to late which hopefully it aint. Don't try to manipulate her. Be true to your words and heart. Good luck!
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reader, Alex2011 +, writes (19 March 2011):
Alex2011 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for the advices. I have definitely learned my lessons. i did screw up, i want to contact my ex to asking forgiveness once again, is it a bad idea? i'm so worry about her will avoid me. i feel shy also. i never contact her 5 months already. My minds keep wandering back to her, i don't know why. i want to be a better person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): Always remember how you hurt your ex and never do that to another woman. It's cruel and it does more harm to the woman that you hurt bad than you can even begin to imagine. It not right to toy with anyone's feelings and heart. Treat women the way you want to be treated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): First thing first, you need to end it with your current gf because you're not fully committed and devoted to her because you're still in love with your ex. Your current gf's a rebound as it stands which is cruel doings to her. She'll probably be crushed when you break it off but it's better to do it sooner then later so she doesn't put more into you which would make it that much harder for her to cope with should you get to the point where you can't do her anymore because of your emotions with your ex. Then you need to be alone to figure out what you want. If that's rekindling with your ex, is that possible? Is that what you want? Don't rush either way, because if you do try to rekindle with your ex, that'll more than likely be a task itself because I'm assuming she's hardened to you for breaking her heart so bad. Think about what you're doing to feelings and hearts beside yours. Good luck and be right.
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