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writes: I am 19 years old, a guy, a took a family holiday this month with my mum and sister. In Majorca, I totally fell for our holiday rep, who was blonde, adorable, and most likely a couple of years older. I never managed to make conversation but said hi a few times. I liked her so much that on the day we left, I wrote her a love letter [but nothing too heavy] and left it in the office. I told her how lovely she was and what a nice holiday they had given us. I genuinely liked her, and it was nothing creepy or stalkerish. Anyway, two days later, another rep who was on our holiday added me on Facebook [as I had left my address for her]. Why would the other girl have added me? The letter had the blonde girl's name on it, so there couldn't have been any confusion.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 August 2012):
 If you never really talked to the "blond" it's most likely that she wasn't interested back. However, the other girl might have noticed you and therefore contacted you.
Sorry :(
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 August 2012):
 Probably this other rep (although i don't know what a rep is) liked you. And the blonde one who you left the letter for didn't, so she didn't add you. What's there to be confused about? If you don't want the other rep as a friend on facebook just decline the request, no biggie.
That blonde girl is probably not going to contact you. Maybe, but probably not. Unless you have chemistry and were flirting I doubt she'll be interested in more just because you left her a letter. Coming on too strongly tends to scare people away.. guys too for that matter, this is universal. If you come on too heavy they will back away. A letter was probably too heavy. I have handed out my number on several occasions, just to give you an example. I gave it to guys without them asking em first, and no one ever called me. When "hunting/courting" someone you need to be more subtle, and always play a little uninterested. That's probably why this other girl contacted you, because you weren't coming on strong to her. Girls flock to a guy who ignores them. Guys too, I get all sorts of guys interested when I just act uninterested, but if I try a pick-up line I get nothing! Go figure.
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