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writes:hi i hope to hear back from all the ladies out there. my best friend wont stop talking about my boyfriend, out of the blue, its been a couple months now. she used to hate him cos he never like her and he always thought she was a bad influence because we used to go to the clubs together.i dont know if im over doing it or not, but i could even feel a slight change in the air and he was, all of a sudden, a little interested in her personal private life stories or dilemmas, like who she dates and what she does with them, where she goes.. ect.i dont ever tell him girl secrets that she and i have shared, no not at all and as her friend i would never tell him something she trusted in me, but me and my boyfriend are so so close, not only is he the love of my life he is my boyfriend he is my beast friend, we have been dating for 5 years and our ultimate plan has always been to get married. but this sudden change in the air and odd interest has put me off. i feel it in my gut something has happened but i dont know what. when i have asked him he just laughs it off and say im crazy or jokes around saying yeh id just love to f her then say he kidding just to get a reaction out of me, and then give me a kiss. we have had rough patches as every couple does and he started to drink heavily around 6 months ago. everything is back to normal now and me and are back on our plan but i cant get this out of my head. my bestfriend who is like a sister is still single and has not had much luck with men altho she is very attractive. what do i do ? do i pick at it or leave it alone. it bothers me to think that she thinks she can get my man- this is how i she makes me feel when she acts like she knows him all of a sudden and is contiously talking about him.sometimes she just calls me up to ask about mine and his fight, she is slightly depressed that she is still single .. i just dont know i know they did sleep together (I HOPE) because that would be then end for both of them, but im worried there is an attraction. maybe their eyes hav locked one time when i wasnt looking and the fact that he used to drink and me and my boyfriend had problems around the time i felt this "change" is leading me to believe SOMETHING how ever little or big has happen. and i cant be with him if this is true. our relationship has always been the envy of our friends cause we really do make a beautiful couple and we are so in love.. but i cant seem to stop thinking every time she wants to know whats up with me and him, this was always routine question and now bothers the crap out of me ! what do i do-- sorry about the essay question lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i have to know to what degree this went.. because if its bad i dont want him let alone her in my life.
i deserve to know the truth and i deserve to make decision.
i cant stop thinking about it but when it comes up usally because of her i get pist off. how can i make she see he dont want anything to do with her or make him go off her incase she is on his mind
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reader, Emiking  +, writes (5 August 2012):
 I don't know but all i have to say is that, if he still love you and wants you back, then go back to him and then tell him you don't like it when you ask important questions and he play it off and after that tell him about marriage and this time mean it. And you have to forget what ever that happen between them, Couse if you don't stop thinking about it, it will harm you. So you have to let it go off. This is all i can say.
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