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writes:My current bf told me that no matter what I said or did sexually I would never appear slutty because I'm so sweet. My last boyfriend said approximately the same thing and this is a word that has been used often by men to describe me. I know the dictionary definition of sweet, but I don't understand what they mean. Reply to this Question
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reader, Karlos Omnis  +, writes (13 October 2007):
 There's only one reason why they are saying this exact phrase to you, and that's to guarantee you're a "slut" in the bedroom with them.
The way you present the phrase being directed at you it seems unprovoked, so it begs the the question, why is this the common denominator in each of your relationships?
If you're ok with this then it's roses, but if you don't like this style of "manipulation", then you need to speak out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): They mean that you are innocent looking and knowone would expect what you get up to behind closed doors.
I fear that telling you this they are getting you to do more experimental things with them but say you are sweet to eliminate the feelings that they are using you or stop you feeling slutty. Beware that its not a way of keeping you doing what they want in the bedroom.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (10 October 2007):
They mean girl next door holsom and inocent "looking." That kind of beauty always fade with age and lifestyle. Don't believe them literally they may not be the gentlemen they appear to be.
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