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writes: Ok, Im jus going to go all out here because I really need some answers, and its not making any sence to me. I masterbate, and I know exactly what having an orgasm feels like, but I never get one having sexual intercourse with my fiancee. I talked to my friends and they have jus said that it takes longer for girls. So I'd try it out and let him keep going, which eventually leads to him taking longer to get his nutt (obviously), but opposite results, instead of having an orgasm, I jus began to be bored with the whole thing, and couldnt wait til he was finished! Im not saying that it doesnt feel good, because it does, but I can never get that orgasm i hope for. I would really appreciate some advice on this subject because apparently Im completly clueless.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (9 January 2008):
Hey just try to relax and don't make yourself feel you are going for the world cup! I hope things turn out well for you.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): I have the same problem. Suggestion: have anal sex, and while he's pounding you doggy style, put a firm pillow under you. You'll rise up a bit up and won't strain yourself. Let your fiancee finger you as well while you climax. It'll be enjoyable for both, and guys get turned on very much trying to hold you still...experiment with a vibrator too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks! I did research it myself after posting this, because im very impatient, and it stated just about everything you guys answered on here! So pretty much, you guys are doing a really good job, and you know exactly what you are talkin about! I really appreciate that you took the time out to help with my question! Oh, and as for an update, I told my fiancee about how to help me out in that area, so lets just hope for the best! Thanks again!
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 Well...
Having an orgasm from penetration is rather difficult for a lot of woman who are more excited by clitoral stimulation. What you can do to help is:
1. Masturbate whilst having penetration, this way you can both have an orgasm at the same time. He can masturbate you or you can do it your self.
2. Buy and use a vibrator on your clit while being penetrated.
3. Try positions where your G spot gets stimulated, maybe it'll work.
Have fun and don't worry about it! Good luck!
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reader, chlez83 +, writes (8 January 2008):
Welcome to the big family of women who never come from penetration only.You are one of the many women who may learn to enjoy oral sex (cunnulingus) and if done right may help you get started on having an orgasm.To be honest,i find it easier to make my girlfriend orgasm at foreplay than during sex.Some of you women are just like that and the earlier your man learns that the better for your sex life.Explore new ways of having sex and don't rush into penetration.
Good luck.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 ok glad you at least know what you like which is a very good start.
as your friends pointed out women do take longer ot get going. alot more forplay form your partner is a good start have him relax you as best as possible. be it starting with a massage oral.. what ever floats your boat. buy the karma suitra and just try alot of different position, its not uncommen for women to not orgasm with vanilla sex.
just experiment and see what works.
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