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writes:Hey everyone. there is this girl in my class that i really like. but since we just started uni. we dont know eachother, i sat next to her this afternoon and i began talking to her, i guess it was stupid though coz the first thing i said was hey how are u obviously. then i told her this like..my day would be such a waste if i dont tell u that i find you cute :).. then she just smiled and said thank you. and then later i told her that im really gonna have to get to know her and then she said yea why not..but then i screwed it up..i asked her right away what is she doing tonight :S..she told me no she cant go out coz her girl friend is coming over to her place but then she said that we can meet at the intregration day which is in two days from now..i was like yes sure then i just kept quiet the whole classe.i dont know how shall i react the next time and what to ask her?can u people help me out with this. i just need to know whether i screwed it up or not..and what shall i ask her nxt time Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 September 2011):
 No it sounds to me like you haven't screwed anything up. She probably does just have plans with a friend tonight and therefore she couldn't meet you. She has offered to meet you in two days which is a good sign in my eyes. Therefore just keep playing it cool and talk to her like you would normally talk to anyone when you see her.
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (26 September 2011):
 She didn't necessarily turn you down. She just wouldn't have been open to seeing you THAT NIGHT. You complimented her which is a plus, and she said she would be open to seeing you on integration day. So when you see her, chat with her for a while, and be sure to ask for her number. After you speak to her, tell her that you've really enjoyed the conversation and would really like to take her out. See when she would be available to meet and try to arrange something that's convenient for the both of you.You may also want to read these articles as well:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-approach-a-girlthe-right-way.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/what--women-want-most-from-a-guy.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-create-great-conversations-on-a-date.htmlGood luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2011): I don't think you messed it up. When you see her in two days be casual, friendly, and open. And remember to say, "Did you have a good evening with your friend the other night?" Show that you remember her specifically with a specific question like that. This will show her she's not just some random girl that you picked out of the crowd.
Maybe instead ask to go for coffee or something more casual than an evening date. Good luck!
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