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51-59,
*unera
writes:I have just found out about the affair of my husband which has been going on for ove 3 years now. I have caught him many times but he always managed to convince me that it was not him but it is for his friend until i read all the messages on his phones and the pictures that he has been keeping. now I feel so betrayed and i cant imagine life with him again. i just feel so stupid and depressed. i dont know what to do.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (17 December 2010):
 Personally i think that you should leave him, he has been betraying you for the last three years lying and cheating and blaming it on his friend. I don't believe that leaopards change their spots, so if you forgave him the likellhood is in a few weeks, months, when the smoke has settled he will be upto no good again. You said yourself that you feel betrayed and can't imagine life with him again, well maybe nows the time to take action and leave him and get on with the rest of life.
All the best x
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (17 December 2010):
 I suggest leaving him. He's obviously been lying the last 3 years, so leaving is your best option from the information you have given us.
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