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anonymous
writes:Me and my ex haven't been talking for 10 months. I didn't contact her before because of fear of being rejected. A couple of days ago, I tried calling her up and she answered my call! We had a really good conversation about what's been going on in our lives and I admitted that I missed her a lot while she didn't reply to that. I made a second call a couple of days after the first call and asked whether she's single or not. The thing is, I know she has a bf of a few months (maybe 2) I think but she denied the fact that she has one. At first, she was trying to push away the question until i've pressured her enough (in a good way). What does this actually mean?? I really want her back but seeing that she denied the fact that she has a new bf mindf-ed the sh*t out of me. What should I do?P/S: Thanks for checking my problem out. I really appreciate it. =)
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reader, curious1987  +, writes (14 June 2012):
 u shuld just ask her ifcshe still cares about u .:-) it may be that she does or may be she doesnt. but u wont know unless u ask her. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2012): Hi, it's me again.
I'm pretty sure she has one because my friend knows it by looking up her social site homepage and he saw some stuffs. So yeah. I'm very aware that she has one. All i'm thinking is why in the world would she lied? Especially me. Does she still cares about me?
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reader, curious1987 +, writes (8 June 2012):
iy could be that the relationship is still new to her, and doesnt want people to know until she is certain it will work out. also are you 100% sure she has a new bf? maybe someone just told you that she did, to see how u would react? i could be wrong, but it is possible she really doesnt uave one? alternatively u could ask her why she lied you about it and tell her that u know she lied. but more then likely she wants to wait and c if it gana work out before telling ppl. after all the kore ppl that know ur togetger, the more ppl u have to tell when u break up. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2012): Hi, i'm the one who asked this question.
I know what you're saying and it's bad to ruin someone's relationship but all i'm asking is what does she mean?? Why isn't she telling me or even acknowledging it?? I love her so much since the past 6 years AND counting but not telling someone you have a new person is rather the same as ruining someone's relationship no?
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reader, curious1987 +, writes (7 June 2012):
if she really has a bf then stay away. i know thats probably not wat u want to hear, but she is in a relationship. the best u can do is wait until heycbreak up then see if she still cares for u. but if u break them up, whats stopping her from going back to him? i know its hard but u have to move on, find someone who loves u as much as u love them. hope i could help. xx
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reader, curious1987 +, writes (7 June 2012):
if she really has a bf then stay away. i know thats probably not wat u want to hear, but she is in a relationship. the best u can do is wait until heycbreak up then see if she still cares for u. but if u break them up, whats stopping her from going back to him? i know its hard but u have to move on, find someone who loves u as much as u love them. hope i could help. xx
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